I am honored to share my story.
I was in my prime, married for a couple of years, enjoying career success, and without any health issues. As I approached 35, my husband and I decided to start a family. However, after some time, we realized we might need assistance.
I began injections , which proved ineffective. After several months and basic checks, including an ovarian test, I underwent a tubal patency test (HyCoSy), revealing that both of my fallopian tubes were blocked. It was a devastating realization that things might not be as easy as we had hoped.
At this point, we knew IVF was our next step, and the journey began. Further tests revealed an autoimmune thyroid disease, which could impact infertility treatment and fetal health during pregnancy. I was prescribed hormone-supplying medication.
Following an IVF protocol with an end-to-end plan, I received my first bag of medication (injections and pills) worth 700 EURs and prepared for the first egg retrieval procedure. Despite the excitement, I knew challenges lay ahead.
Unfortunately, my first egg retrieval resulted in ovarian hyperstimulation syndrome, an adverse effect of fertility drugs. After two unsuccessful embryo transfers, we finally received a positive pregnancy test. It was a moment of disbelief and caution when we shared the news with family after the first trimester. We eagerly anticipated the arrival of our baby boy and eagerly awaited the first 3D scan.
However, what should have been a joyous occasion turned into a nightmare when the doctor announced there was no cardiac action. Our lives were shattered in an instant, and I had to undergo a suction procedure. To our horror, the fetus was too large, requiring hospitalization and eventual birth.
It was a painful and emotionally draining experience, leading to days of suffering and depression. Despite the challenges, the unwavering support of my husband and loved ones kept me going.
After a brief recovery, I resumed the IVF program, undergoing complex genetic blood tests that revealed a form of thrombophilia potentially contributing to the miscarriage. Additional injection treatments were prescribed.
Despite two more embryo transfers resulting in spontaneous abortion and hospitalization, I refused to give up hope. We discussed contingency plans and decided to switch IVF clinics for a fresh perspective and renewed hope.
Under the care of a new doctor and with a revised medication plan, I became pregnant again on the first attempt. The first scan revealed two embryos, bringing us immeasurable joy. Despite only one embryo surviving, we were overjoyed. I took every precaution to protect the little one, including working from home and recovering from a bout of COVID-19.
Little Hana was born via C-section a few days before my 40th birthday.
Facing fertility challenges and undergoing IVF was not something I ever expected. It was undoubtedly the most challenging period of my life, but it taught me valuable lessons about resilience and perseverance.
I am proud to be part of Ninti and to join the Ambassador program led by my company to offer support and hope to others facing similar challenges. It's so important to raise awareness about these issues and create supportive environments at home and in the workplace.
From my personal experience, I encourage everyone to speak openly about their journey and seek support to mitigate the risk of depression.
To anyone going through a similar experience, remember: you are not alone. Where there is a way, there is hope.
Anna L.
Sr. Advisor Marketing Budget @ Dell Technologies
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